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    Personal Financial Accountability In the Church, A Way Forward

    ToddMay 6, 2008

    For the first three years of our marriage my wife and I didn’t have any outstanding credit card debt. Then the crap hit the fan. Between some unnecessary purchases, not making enough money, hospital bills, and a string of car repairs, we amassed ourselves some significant credit card debt.

    Over the last two years we’ve been trying to be more conscious of how we spend and how we save. We’re finally starting to show some signs of progress. Of course, our adoption set us back this past year and we’re in the midst of paying that down. But the good news is that this week we finally paid off my outstanding seminary bill and due to the kindness of some friend we made some significant progress on that adoption debt.

    I have become convinced that being in debt is not a necessary “part of being American.” At least, it shouldn’t be. I have talked with a number of people who have pretty much resigned themselves to always being the debt. This is too bad. While I think you could argue that in some instances, its unavoidable, its certainly not something we should settle on. In fact, we’ve got to get aggressive after debt! It’s a terrible thing that so many people in the church are strapped financially by debt payments that we can’t give our money away like we really want to.

    If you didn’t make any credit card, debt payments each month, how much would you be able to give away to those in need? Kind of depressing isn’t it? Of course, this number should also be motivating! Imagine those you could help and the good you could do if you got serious (or kept on being serious) about paying down your debt?

    But how?

    For Melanie and I we’ve made progress but we’ve not done it alone. We’ve actually been meeting with two friends (another married couple in our church) for the past year. They’ve been holding us accountable in our finances and we’ve been doing the same for them. The problem with most accountability however is that its easy to lie and keep things back. This is always tempting. Especially with your finances, its really hard to be fully transparent. Not only is it hard to admit when you don’t spend your money well, but its just hard to keep track of and show someone else.

    Opening your checkbook

    I am a big, big fan of opening your checkbook to someone you trust. I mean literally. This means that they would have full access to every penny you spend. I’m convinced that one of the greatest lies that our culture teaches us is that money is a totally private matter that is between me and God. Jesus didn’t talk about money that way. For something that can be so threatening to the Christian faith, we need to be intentionally counter-cultural and “open our checkbook” to someone that we trust and give them the freedom to speak into this area of our lives.

    Enter Mint.

    Mint is a described as “fresh, intelligent online money management.” Basically, you pull all your accounts (including credit cards!) into your secure account and it gives you up to date balances on all these accounts.

    That’s nice. But, the best part is that you categorize your transactions and it gives you a beautiful pie chart of your spending per category for a time period of your choosing. The categories are really “smart” so that once you use it for a few weeks the program gets really good at auto categorizing your transactions for you. So, you can easily get a quick glance of how much money you spent on coffee, how much you overspent on fast food and if you have any more money left in your budget to go out to the movies.

    The best part about Mint is that you can access it from anywhere. This means that you can give your accountability partner your username and password and they can go on anytime and see where all your money has been going. Scary eh? Yes, its scary. But I’m convinced that is what it just might take for some of us to become better at managing our money.

    Now, like any accountability situation, we can’t get legalistic about every penny and spend all our time trying to catch each other doing something wrong. The idea isn’t to control each other and second guess every single purchase. Rather the goal is to have someone to speak grace and encouragement and be able to ask you honest questions about the way you are spending your money.

    I think the best accountability asks questions like, “was that a good decision?” and “are you happy you made that purchase” and “do you regret anything here?” Its not about keeping record of wrongs, its about helping us live more and more free.

    So, open up your checkbook. One good way is to use Mint.

    Why? So you can live in freedom. When we live in freedom, we’re not strapped to a job we hate because we have to pay our bills. When we live in freedom we are not giving all our money to debtors instead of those in need.

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    Don’t Call Me Mr. Mom

    ToddMay 1, 2008

    Cole and MasonI just got done pulling Strawberry Chex out of my son’s hair.  It was awesome.

    For the last two months Melanie (my wife) has been working on Thursdays so that means I have been home with the boys.  It’s funny, a number of people have made the predictable “Mr. Mom” comment. I’ll be honest, I hate that comment.  I really do.  Last time I checked, I’m their dad. So, if you want to call me Mr. Dad, thats okay with me.  Because that’s what I am…

    Also, when I am home watching my kids, fulfilling my role as a parent…don’t call me the babysitter.  I’m “dad.” Its not like these kids are my wife’s responsibility and I just happen to watch them for her everyonce and a while. That’s a screwed up view of manhood and womanhood.

    I. Am. Their. Dad.  I’m not Mr. Mom and I’m not the babysitter.

    I’m dad.

    Okay, I think you get the point.

    Mini-rant is over…

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    The Best 1:43 you will spend today (A Mason Video)

    ToddApril 28, 2008

    Seriously, if you had to do spend 1 minute and 43 seconds doing something, you’d have a hard time finding a better way to do it…

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    The Chop

    ToddMarch 31, 2008

    Melanie Hiestand's Hair Chop!

    My beautiful wife went away for a “girls weekend” recently and came back looking a tad different. I’ve gotta be honest… I love it! She has had longer hair for as long as I can remember and every time she thinks about cutting it shorter she has flashbacks of the ‘fro she had when she was a little kid. While I think ‘fros are awesome I was nervous to see one on my wife. So, when she left for the weekend I was a bit nervous. I wasn’t sure how it would turn out. But, I think you’ll agree that it looks awesome.

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    My Four Year Old Jesus Freak

    ToddMarch 24, 2008

    We were rocking out to old school DC Talk in our house tonight….

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    Just so you know…

    ToddDecember 3, 2007

    Todd & Melanie Hiestand
    I love my wife like crazy.

    I can’t help it. She’s amazing.

    What’s a guy to do?

    I’ve loved her like crazy for 7 years.

    However, I told her yesterday,

    I love her more today, than the last 7 years combined.

    I think that’s a good thing.

    It’s not our anniversary or anything.

    She’s just freaking amazing.

    What else can I say?

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    Travel Day from Philadelphia

    ToddNovember 20, 2007

    So, this morning Melanie and I woke up the kids and got out of the house by around 6:50 for a 9:15 flight out of Philadelphia. It took us 1 hour and 45 minutes to get to the airport (usually takes about 1 hour that time of day). In addition to missing our flight and having to wait around till 12:30pm to fly out here is a list of what else when “wrong”:

    • Most of the trouble started when Cole had to go to the bathroom while we were sitting in traffic on Byberry Road. There were no bathrooms around. We tried stopping at an old folks home but it was locked. So, well, we did what we had to do. We peed on the bushes in the corner of the parking lot.
    • Mason cried the entire car ride. Apparently he isn’t a fan of driving. (Which should make out well for the 2.5 hour drive to Wisconsin to our parents time share
    • When you miss your flight and you want to guarantee that you make the next one, it costs $50 per ticket. Since Mason was riding on our laps that was a grand total of $150 to get us to Chicago. Considering we had free tickets, this felt just great. - that’s sarcasm!
    • After missing our flight we decided to drive to Target to get Mason a stroller since our good one is broken. This worked out just fine till I tried to pry off the zip ties on the stroller with my key and bent the key in half thus almost rendering it useless. Luckily i was able to unbend the key so it fit into the ignition again (though, its nice and tight and is probably not too good for the ignition to jam it in like that).
    • I dropped my extra large sweet-tea from Chick-fil-a and it spilled all over the floor and broke the cup which I was going to use to get a free re-fill. GRRR….
    • After sitting in the airport for about 1.5 hours we realized that we didn’t bring Cole’s car seat with us. He doesn’t need it in the plane but he needs it to ride in the car all weekend. Thankfully we remembered before we took off. My parents had to go out and buy a new one on the way to the airport.
    • To top it all off, we sat on the runway for an extra 1/2 hour before the plane took off. Again, Mason cried that entire half hour.

    Our moment of salvation lay in the fact that Mason did end up sleeping pretty much the entire flight.

    I love flying usually. I love the whole experience, usually. I’m a weird kind of dude who loves security lines, crowds, flight delays, sitting in airports and everything else. Seriously. I think its because my dad flew a lot for business when I was a kid and I glamorize the whole thing still.

    But, when you have a 1 and a 4 year old, all the novelty goes out of the window.

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    An Adoption Sermon

    ToddNovember 12, 2007

    Intro: Below is the sermon manuscript that I preached on August 10, 2007 after my wife and I and our new son Mason got home from Guatemala. I meant to post this a long time ago, but I had to make a few edits. I didn’t really make all the edits and I am fairly sure that what I actually said is different from what I wrote here but the general idea is here (I never follow my manuscript very closely) . I would link to the audio but it just figures that this was the week that our recorder decided to take a vacation. I hope you find this enjoyable. I am going to print it out to put in our adoption box that we are keeping to give to Mason at some point.

    I’m posting this in light of the fact that we just had Mason officially welcomed into our church family this weekend at The Well.

    Sermon Summary: We are Redeemed. We are called to be Redemptive
    Bottom Line: Put up or shut up.

    THANKS
    The first thing that I want to do before I get into the depths of my sermon is to say thanks to you guys for being part of our lives the past few weeks. As you know, between the miscarriage and bringing Mason home after a year and a half of the adoption process, our lives have been quite a rollercoaster. Someone asked me this week how we are dealing with it and I said that we could not have gone through it without you guys. Well, that’s not totally true. We would have been able to go through it. But it just would have totally sucked.

    ROMANS 12:15
    You guys have been a true picture or Romans 12:15. You have mourned well with us as we mourned and you have rejoiced well with us as we rejoiced. In all the years that we have been here at The Well, I realized that we have not been on the receiving end of this community’s compassion in this way. We’ve usually been part of the response. I have to say, that as the pastor here, I fond myself having two emotions. I was so moved and touched by your response to both of these events. Also, I was also so proud of the way you responded. It is my prayer that we can continue to grow and be a community of grace and compassion to those who are hurting and joy and celebration to those who are rejoicing. So, Melanie, Cole, Mason and I say thanks for the way that you have done that with us.

    INTRO / SUMMARY
    This has been a very hard sermon to prepare. This is the case for many reasons. There is so much I could talk about and there is so much I could say. But, what I want to do today is to take our experience with adoption and put it into the perspective of the Biblical Story and the gospel. What I want to say today is this: “God has adopted us into his redeemed and redemptive family.” If you can get what this means in the next 26 or so minutes, you’ve gotten what I am trying to say. If you fall asleep, just come back to this and you’
    ll be able to figure out where we are.

    Now, I understand that the words “redeemed” and “redemptive” are big theological words. It is not my intention to toss around theological mumbo-jumbo. But I was not able to work out words that fit it better. So, I am going to use them anyways and do my best to explain them as we go…

    WHY WE ADOPTED
    When Melanie and I started out in this journey in January of 2006, we didn’t quite totally understand what we were doing. Now, we knew that we wanted to adopt and we knew that we wanted a boy and we knew the process was going to be very, very long. But, we didn’t quite have an understanding of the whole of this process. Of course, many people asked us all the time (and still do) “Why did you choose to adopt?”

    Well, I wanted to give you an answer to that in two ways. I want to give you some reasons we did and I want to give you some things that are NOT reasons we did.

    So first, some things that are not reasons we adopted Mason:

    • So we could be like Brad and Angelina
    • Because it’s fashionable.
    • So he could grow up eating multicolored cheerios
    • So he could grow up playing Little League
    • Pity.
    • So he would be happy.

    Now, these are generally fine things. But, I want to make the point that we didn’t adopt Mason just so we could give him the American Dream.

    So, why did we adopt him then?

    So, here are some reasons we DID adopt Mason?

    ames 1:27 – “Religion that God our father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress…”

    Friends, I believe this passage to be very, very relevant for our lives. Also this is not just about adoption. For Melanie and I, this is how we have responded to this verse at this moment. But, I think this goes beyond adoption. This even goes beyond orphans and widows. In the early church times, because of the culture, the most helpless people were orphans and widows. In our times, who are the most helpless people and how are we responding? On a side note, in our culture, I can think of elderly, the aids victims, homeless, mentally handicapped and orphans. I have seen this community respond time and time again to these needs.

    To give him a better chance at a full life. The fact is, while money does not equal happiness (there are plenty, plenty of people who have nothing who are very full of joy and happiness) I believe that Mason will have a better chance at a full life as part of our family. That is why his birth mom, out of a deep, deep love, chose to entrust him to us. She loved him so much, she believed that she would not be able to provide for him and sacrificed knowing her own child so that he would be better off with another family. You see, Mason’s birth mom makes about Q400 a month. That translates to about $40.00 a month. Her husband has recently left her to start a new family and she believed that she would be unable to provide a healthy life for her little boy.

    Melanie and I do not believe for a second that adopting Mason guarantees him a perfect and wonderful life now that he lives in a family that is not in poverty. But, we do believe that having him as part of our family gives him a better opportunity for a full and healthy life. Please note that when I say “full life” I am not simply talking about the things I outlined earlier like television, little league and multi-colored cheerios.

    Because we simply love him (without even knowing him). This is perhaps the most mysterious of the reasons we adopted Mason. It was amazing to me how much you can suddenly love someone so quickly upon first meeting them. The moment I laid eyes on him, I loved him. I love this kid so much and I want him to feel and know love as much as anything in the world.

    So, how does this relate to the gospel? How does this relate to us being a redeemed people? Well, as you can already tell, its not that hard of a transition. Look at I Peter 1:3-5.

    “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade. This inheritance is kept in heaven for you, who through faith are shielded by God’s power until the coming of the salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time.”

    If you look carefully, you can see the parallels here between the way we adopted Mason and God’
    s adoption of us as his children. You can also see the striking differences.

    In His Great Mercy – Notice the difference between pity and mercy. This is why I said that pity was not one of the reasons we adopted Mason. To me, pity dehumanizes the recipient. It says, “oh, poor you, you poor sap.” Remember Mr. T in the 80’s, “I Pity the Fool!” I think sometimes in adoption and in God’s love can frame these ideas in pity as if God looks at us poor schmucks and feels sorry for us. Mercy on the other hand says, “You are so valuable and worth sacrificing for.” Can you imagine Mr. T looking tough saying “I have mercy on the fool!” Yeah, it just wouldn’t sound or look that tough. It might look something like this. Who is a little someone I like to call MR. G.

    Seriously, though, we saw Mason and all other children needing families as immensely valuable. If you add in perfect love you have how God sees us. We are infinitely valuable to him and he has great mercy on our situation as human beings who naturally broken people. God’
    s mercy is born out of our his immense value for us.

    He has given us new birth into a living hope – Okay so take a look at Mason’s life. In a sense, he has undergone a new birth has he not? Just a little more than a week ago he was living in Guatemala City with his foster mom. Today, he is sitting in this room and has a new mother, new father, new big brother and a community of people who love him. Notice something here, his standing is not only different (in terms of who his family is) but is reality is different. His life is literally changed. He has been given a new hope. He has gone from a child who might have been a statistic to a child who has been given a better opportunity for a full, healthy life. Again, this is an easy transition to the gospel. God has given us new birth to a living hope. But again, the example we have of Mason only begins to be a glimpse of what God has done for us.

    You see, with Mason there are no guarantees that he’ll be better off here. Sure, the odds are better. But he is not guaranteed a perfect life here and we are not guaranteed that nothing will go wrong. At the same time, the odds are better. Look at God, we have been given a new birth into a living hope, through the resurrection and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade. Never Perish. Never Spoil. Never fade. This hope lies in the fact that one day we, along with the rest of this world, will truly be made complete. All the brokenness of our humanity will be fixed and all the brokenness of this world will be fixed. One day, full salvation will come. This is the inheritance that we hope for. This is the inheritance that Paul speaks of in Romans II Corinthians 15 when Paul says, if the resurrection were not real, we would have no hope.

    This is because our hope as Christians lies in the fact that we will be resurrected as well. Friends, this is a beautiful, full and even much more rewarding hope than physical adoption. Our of his mercy, God has called us his sons and daughters, and has given us a hope that through the work of Jesus Christ we can confidently look forward to the day when we and the world will finally be who we were meant to be.

    Okay. so, we are a redeemed people.

    Hopefully you’ll remember what I wanted to say today is that “God has adopted us into his redeemed and redemptive family.”

    God has been about making a family of His people for quite a long time. Whether we’re talking about Isreal in the Old Testament or the church in the New Testament, he has always been about creating a community of people who he desires to be part of what he is doing in the world. It is important for us to remember that God is not simply creating a family for the sake of creating a community. God did not create Isreal so that Isreal could huddle together and save themselves as the world went to hell.

    Remember back to when we called Abraham, Genesis 12:2-3,

    “I will make you a great nation, and I will bless you; I will make your name great and you will be a blessing. I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.”

    Then we get to the Church, we see in John 20:21 when Jesus appears to his disciples after he has risen from the dead he says, “Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.”

    We just studied the life of Jesus for the last year and we know that the Father sent Jesus to love and care for others. Jesus now sends us to love and care for others. That is our primary purpose. To love and care for others. To be involved in what he is doing in the world.

    Scot McKnight says the following,

    “The church is not a collection of random individuals who happen to believe in Jesus Christ, who happen to be “working out their own salvation,” who happen to be living in proximity to one another, who happen to enjoy the same preachers and musicians and liturgy, and who happen to affirm the same doctrinal convictions. The church is a community of faith wherein humans are “re-communioned” to one another [God and the world].”

    In a similar way that we didn’t adopt Mason just so that we can shelter him from the world and get him out of poverty so he could grow up with Little League, God doesn’t just adopt us so that we can get to heaven when we die, or so that we can huddle together and care for one another in this cold dark world and wait for him to save us. Rather, God has called us and adopted us as his sons and daughters so that we may be a part of what he is doing in this world.

    While we may not have thought about this when we started, we now know that we have adopted Mason and in doing so we can introduce him to the love of God and teach him the joy of being part of what God is doing in the world. The wonderful thing is that he (and Cole) are not merely going to learn all of this in the context of the Hiestand family. He is going to learn all of this in the context of a community called The Well. And also, he is not only going to learn this in the context of a community called The Well. I pray he is going to learn this in the context of a community called The Church.

    We have adopted Mason into our family. You have adopted us into your family. God has adopted all of us into his worldwide family. All for the sake of the world.

    PUT UP OR SHUT UP
    I want to say one more thing that I was very personally challenged by as I was studying this week. And, I want to say this with as much grace and compassion as the scriptures will let me. But, on some level, the book of James isn’t all about tact and being political. The book of James is pretty much in your face. And, I’ll be honest, it got in my face this week fairly well.

    I have already quoted James 1:27 to you guys, “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress..” It continues, “and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.” So, it Todd’s paraphrase it says strongly, “take seriously your responsibility for those your culture ignores, and take your discipleship seriously”.

    This probably isn’t news to anyone here. We’ve heard this before. In face, you’ve probably heard most of what I have said before. But…

    The part that gets me is the section before. Verses 22-25. I interpret it this way, put up or shut up. I am going to be honest here. As a community we have done many, many good things. We are a community of grace and compassion. I have already stated my deep, deep love for you guys. But, honestly, sometimes I think we talk the walk much better than we walk it. We can talk all we want about being a community of that cares for the poor and needy. We can talk about being people that take their discipleship seriously. And like I said, sometimes we do well and shine brilliantly. But, I know (and I know this because I am speaking from my own life) that thre comes a point where we need to put up or shut up. We need to stop talking about doing it and just start doing it. Honestly, I am struggling to figure out what this means in my life.

    But, I do know that this concept of sacrifice keeps coming back to me. As some of you read in my blog I was very moved by the examples of sacrifice that Mason’s birth mother and foster mother made. What they did was truly amazing.

    And, all I know is that the best thing I can do and the best thing we can do is to sacrifice a little more each day.

    It’s true that God has adopted us into his redeemed and redemptive family. This is a family that has been given so much. We have been given an inheritance of that can never waste away. We are also a family that much has been asked of. God has called us to be a family that is actively involved in what he is doing in the world. It is not enough for us to just be redeemed people. We must enage in being a redemptive people as well. In order for us to do this, together, it’s going to ask of us more than we can ever imagine.

    I want to end with a quote from Fredick Buchner:

    “The gospel is not only good and new, but if you take it seriously, a holy terror. Jesus never claimed that the process of being changed from a slob into a human being was going to be a Sunday school picnic. On the contrary, childbirth may occasionally be painless. But rebirth, never.”

    The question for many of us is “where do I start?” To that I say, start small. You don’t have ot save the world. Shanna Cummings says it best. WE need to be obedient to the moment. When you feel God calling you to do something. Do it. Stop making excuses. Just stop and do it.

    We have embraced Mason into our home (The Hiestands).

    You have embraced us into our community (The Well).

    God has embraced us into his family (The Church).

    So that we might be a blessing to others…

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    Update on the Boys…

    ToddOctober 7, 2007

    Sorry its blurry, but come on, is that hair not amazing?

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    Click on the picture to enlarge it…

    We’ve been totally loving being parents of two kids. People keep on asking me if I am now really tired. Well, I am, but its not because the kids are keeping me up. Mason is basically sleeping through the night. It’s the dang MLB playoffs. I mean, come on, why do I have to stay up till 2am just to watch my favorite team?! This television schedule has to change. Of course, now that the Cubs were swept, I can get plenty of sleep…

    Back to the boys. Here are some recent highlights that I think are worth sharing:

    Cole:
    Cole is getting really, really good at baseball. I’m going to shoot some video soon to share but I’ve been pitching overhand to him and he’s really hitting the ball well. Its fairly impressive. Mason, he’s not playing baseball yet but when we do play he sits in the stroller and just watches us play. Its great. Cole is also playing soccer on Saturday mornings in Doylestown (anyone want to join us for a game, let me know). Its typical 4 year old soccer. By typical i mean really, really cute. We’ve got some pictures coming soon…

    Mason:
    Mason weighted 15lbs when we brought him home in August. We went for his first doctor visit this week and he now weighs a grand total of 17 lbs. To give some perspective, our friends recently had a baby. She is now about 3 months old. She weights about 19lbs. Mason turns a year on October 30. On the doctor charts, he’s comes in on the 3rd percentile. This means that 97% of kids in America who are his age are longer and weigh more than him. Of course, we figure they probably have different charts in Guatemala.

    All in all, our kids are amazing. Cole absolutely loves his little brother and Mason is a really happy kid. You should hear him laugh…

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    Guatemala Adoption Process Questions

    ToddSeptember 24, 2007

    Since our family finalized our adoption and brought our adorable son Mason Carlos home from Guatemala we’ve obviously received a ton of questions about the process.

    • The first thing people usually ask is: “How long did it take?
      The answer there is: A LONG TIME! We started the process in January of 2006 and Mason came home to Philadelphia in August 2007. We had a number of stalls and a ton of waiting for it all to happen.
    • The second thing people usually ask is “how much did it cost?
      The answer there is rather easy also: A LOT! It’s no secret that a Guatemala adoption costs around $25,000 when all is said and done (adoption fees + travel). We were no exception. We haven’t added up every penny but our process was somewhere near there.
    • Naturally, the question comes next: “Why does it cost so much?!
      To be honest, I don’t have the answer there. My wife knows this answer better than I do but the answer lies in a combination of lawyer fees, official paper processing and foster care. When it all comes down to it, I don’t really care. All I have to do is hold my amazing son in my arms and I know I would have paid 10 times that much if necessary.
    • Of course, no one needs to ask the question, “was it worth it?
      Just take a look at this kid and answer that one for yourself!

    So, those are few quick answers to some frequently asked questions.

    Oh, and If you are interested in a flow chart of the adoption process, download it here. (I am sure it will make you even more confused!):

    Guatemala Adoption Flow Chart - this is a pdf file

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    Headed to Chicago

    ToddSeptember 19, 2007

    I’m headed to Chicago tomorrow (Thursday) till Saturday. Looking forward to a friend’s wedding (a friend from highschool) as well as some time with my parents. Playing golf twice with my dad, dinner tomorrow night with my brothers and I am sure my mom and I will go out for coffee together a few times.

    It will be good to see my family in chi-town but I’ll be missing my wife and my boys for sure. At least its a quick trip.

    Also looking forward to this. Shoot me an e-mail if you’ll be there. It looks interesting.

    Too bad my first place Cubs aren’t in town…

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    Two Great Reasons to Work From Home

    ToddSeptember 17, 2007

    Unless I am out on a web design meeting or a church meeting, I work from home most days.

    My office is in the basement:

    My Office

    When I go upstairs to get something to drink, or for lunch or for, well whatever… this is what I am greeted by:


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    and sometimes this…

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    Hmm… I think I’m pretty much enjoying life right now…

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