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I am a pastor at The Well in Feasterville, PA (a suburb Northeast of Philadelphia) and I work as a freelance web designer also. This blog has become a place for me to share my thougths, reading notes and general reflections on life as a bi-occupational pastor/web designer who lives in suburbs of Philly with his wife and (soon-to-be) three awesome boys.

(Currently, I am also testing out a new blog theme that I am in the midst of developing, let me know what you think).

  • The Suburban Mob: A Year Later

    Summary: It's been exactly a year since I wrote this post after coming back from Zambia.

    It has been exactly a year since I put some of the most significant lessons that God had taught me in the last few years  to words.

    It was called, “Are You Rioting with the Suburban Mob.”

    I’ve been reflecting on these thoughts and where we are as a family now, a year later. 

    I can say that we have put some great effort into refocusing our lives and being aware of the culture we are living in and how it is offering a way of life that has some major roadblocks to a distinctly christian life.  This has expressed itself in different ways.  Some ways we have been successful and other ways have been harder.  For example we’ve made great progress on living more within our means financially and paying off debt.  

    I think if you live in suburbia (or any other culture for that matter, as each one brings a unique set of challenges) and don’t struggle with living in line with the teachings of Jesus, then you probably need to take a fresh look at the scriptures and your culture.

    The struggle is good.  

    It’s complacency that I scares me. 

    It’s funny, I feel like part of the reason God called me to Zambia, a culture so different than mine, so I could see the reality of my culture more clearly. 

    The simple truth is, the world’s default way of life just doesn’t work.  This is definitely no exception in suburbia.

    Jesus calls us to a different way of life.  The gospel has some strong critique of this default way of life. Far too often we can’t even see this critique because it’s all we know.

    This way of life isn’t about solo christianity.  This way of life requires us to engage a new/ancient way together. 

    New because we live in a unique time. Ancient because living in the way of Jesus aren’t new. 

    That is why I need my church community.  I need them because God has always been about creating alternative communities that do their best to live life as he intended it.  Stanley Hauerwas uses the term Resident Aliens to describe this community.  I kind of like the term “Alternative mob”  that i used in the post I wrote a year ago.

    Either way you say it, I pray that The Well, and your church community, can be about forming a group of people who are working together to live in light of the Kingdom of God and not the kingdom of your culture. 

    God bless.

  • Revolutionary Road & Suburbia

    Summary:

    Last night my wife and I watched the movie Revolutionary  Road.  I really didn’t know much about it other than it was a critique on suburbia.  Wow, this is a movie that one needs to sit with for a while.  

    Have you see it? What were your reactions to it? 

    I loved the voice of the “mentally ill” friend who called out the suburban bluff.   

    Interesting that he’s the one who is considered “insane.” 

    The movie reminded me of my reactions to coming back to suburbia after being in Zambia last summer in this blog post here.

  • The Ol’ Pastor Swap

    Summary: I think "pulpit swapping" is a great and simple way to show unity in and bring diversity to the body of Christ.

    This weekend I am swapping pulpits with Rev. Greg Holston of St. Matthew United Methodist Church in Trevose, PA.  St. Matthew is a predominately african-american congregation in our town that we partner with on occasion.   Pastor Greg will be preaching at The Well, which I will be very sad to miss. I heard him preach at our combined Easter Sunrise service and he was awesome.  He has a great handle on the scriptures and the gospel and preaches it with a ton of passion.  I know The Well will be blessed and challenged by him this weekend. 

    Part of the deal is that I get to head over to preach to his community.  I’m tremendously excited about this as I love being given the opportunity to speak into other communities of faith.  I’ll be preaching on the topic of personal / corporate vocation which will fit quite well with my place in life these days. 

    One of the values we have at The Well is that of “unity” with the wider body of Christ and I am excited to see us expressing it in this simple way.  If you have never done this kind of thing in your church, suggest it or if you are the pastor, just make it happen.  I think its a great way to say “we are all one body on mission together.”  

    Also, its always helpful for communities to hear the scriptures spoken from someone who lives in the midst of a different environment.  While there is some overlap for sure,  there is no question that the lives that Pastor Greg’s people are living have somewhat different narratives and questions than the people at The Well.  I’m excited to be able to speak into their community from my experience and he into ours. 

    Of course, since the baby has come I haven’t preached in about 7 weeks so I’ve got to figure out how to do this again…

  • It’s Official: I’m Going Back to Starbucks

    Summary: After a three year hiatus, I'm officially employed by Starbucks again.

    It’s hard to believe but I have been a pastor at The Well for about nine years now. In those years, I’ve served at The Well on a part-time-paid basis. This has been an intentional model for us as it allows our church to have a more diverse staff and leadership. This has served us very well as our other part-timer, the one and only Gary Alloway, complements my gifts really well. I can truly say that being “bi-occupational” has been a great asset to the mission of our church community.

    (By the way, I use the term “bi-occupational” instead of “bi-vocational” because I believe that my vocation as a Christian is “witness.” What I do for pay does not change my vocation. My vocation is witness, my job is pastor. Your vocation is witness, your job is… well whatever you do for a living).

    The bi-occupational approach to church leadership sounds pretty sexy to a lot of people these days. And, while I am a believer in it, I’ll be the first to admit that it isn’t always easy. The biggest challenge is finding another job/career that can support your family and still make it possible for you to serve your church well.

    In these last nine years, I’ve worked at UPS, Starbucks and for the last three years I have been a freelance web designer/developer. I’ll be honest, UPS was a terrible job. I worked midnights there and it was probably one of the darkest times of my life for a few different reason that I won’t get into. Starbucks was a great experience and web designing has been pretty awesome because it has given me an extremely flexible schedule and I love the work.

    I am not sure if it’s the “economy” or what but I have not been getting enough design work lately to complement my salary at The Well (which, by the way, is a good part-time salary. They take care us well). So, over the last few weeks my wife and I have been talking about what to do. And it looks like God is leading me back to work at Starbucks part-time.

    I’ll still be doing some design work, but now I’ll have less pressure to make so many sales each month. My hope is to find one or two steady clients that I can concentrate on serving and sell some of my template sites that don’t require a lot of set up work.

    Starbucks will then be a good base for us to work from each month, especially as the benefits kick in after a few months.

    I’ll be honest, this was a very hard decision to come to for many reasons.

    First, I lose some of the flexibility of my schedule. Thankfully, I’ll have set hours (only mornings) and will be able to plan my weeks in advance. But, I lose a lot of the freedom that I get from being my own boss. This freedom is nice, but I understand that the freedom that I’ve had for the past three years is pretty unique so I am willing to part with it for the time being to care for the needs of my family.

    The second reason it was hard honestly revolved around my ego. On some level it feels like a giant step backwards to head back to the Starbucks world. This is not meant as a slight on Starbucks my any means, I wouldn’t be going back there if I didn’t have a high respect for the company. Being totally honest here, as a pastor of a growing church that is doings some incredible ministry, its easy to fall into the trap of thinking that I am too big of a deal or too important to work as a barista at Starbucks. I’m not really sure how cool it is to show up at pastors conferences and say that you are only paid part-time at your church and you spend your mornings steaming milk. But, when it comes down to it, my family is more important that my ego and, well, if my ego really suffers from this job then maybe my ego needs to be put in its place!

    While there are some things that made taking this job hard, there are some very appealing aspects to it.

    First of all, I finally get to use my college degree. You see, i got a degree from PBU which Gary and I have recently dubbed “Pre-Barista University.” This is because I have so many friends who have graduated from PBU (Philadelphia Biblical University) end up working at Sbux. Now I get to tell this joke more often! :)

    Second, and more seriously, I can’t think of a better connection point to the local community. Starbucks really is a third place. That isn’t just a cliche that they come up with as some marketing jargon. I remember when I ended my employment the first time I worked there I thought to myself, “I could probably start a church with 25 non-christians from my relationships at this store.” No, it’s not because I was preaching all the time (Starbucks is not the place for that and I make great efforts to respect the environment they have there). Rather, it was because I built so many actual friendships with both customers and partners that extended beyond the counter and into the real world. I have dreams of someday seeing The Well plant a church in the area I live so this is a great way for me to get connected to my local community.

    Third, Starbucks is just a great company to work for. The workplace is business-like but its also filled with great people. As a pastor, I need a second job that is not going to wear me out emotionally. Starbucks is just that: enjoyable.

    Finally, I need the extra cash. By working at Starbucks I can decline the health benefits at the church and essentially give myself a quick raise in that check in addition to the hourly wages from my time at Starbucks.

    So here we go. Back to Starbucks. I’m honestly very at peace about the decision. I start tomorrow morning and I’ve committed to being there for at least a year so if you are ever in my area, stop by and you’ll get to best latte you can find in the area…

  • Throwback Thursday: A Holy (Suburban) Discontent

    Summary: A quick look at one of the posts from way back in 2007.

    Every once and a while I think about quitting this whole blogging thing. Then, I end up looking through my archives, or someone comments on an old post, and I’m reminded in the value of blogging. It’s helpful to be able to look back on thoughts, feelings and ideas that have shaped me. Sometimes, this looking back reminds me of something that I need to remember.

    Chris commented on this post today and it was fitting that today was the day he brought it back up again. For a number of reasons, I’m feeling this discontent as deeply as ever these days.

    Re-reading this post has been good for me. I hope its helpful for you.

    Check it out: Read: A Holy (Suburban) Discontent

  • I Should Write A Blog Post Soon.

    Summary:

    But I can’t. I have a lot to say but just not enough time to say it.

    In other news I am testing out a blog theme that i am designing for release. What do you think so far?

  • Walmart / Starter marketing FAIL.

    Summary:

    philly hates dallas

    I mean, really? A Tony Romo ad in Philly?

    Really?

    Right next to Phillies gear?

    Really?

    Know your audience people.

    (If you don’t get it, Philly hates the Cowboys and anyone associated with them).

  • Throwback Thursday: Are You Plugged In?

    Summary:

    Another throwback here. This week I’d like to point you to a blog post that shares some of my early thinking about the idea of being “plugged in” to a church or “assimilated” into a community. I reflect here on some great thoughts by Tim Keel.

    Hope you enjoy. Here is the link: “Are You Plugged In?

  • A Short Introduction to NASCAR Fashion

    Summary: A pictorial introduction to NASCAR Nation.

    Today, my son and I took a (now annual) trip to Dover, DE to see the NASCAR Nationwide Series race. It was a beautiful day and a great race. Since I had a zoom lens, I took the opportunity to take some pictures that give you a little picture of the diverse group of people who attend these races.

    Mullet + Stache = Awesome.

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    This guy is rocking this classic look with total confidence. Well done my friend, well done…

    The Mullet II

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    Add in the Oakley’s with the flames on the side and you’ve got yourself an awesome combination!

    Down Home

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    You can’t see it but this stylish woman is knitting. I wonder if she’s knitting a #88 on a flame pattern. Oh, and I just love this hat.

    Unashamed

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    Where else can you go where sporting a rockin farmers tan like this is not only be accepted, but in style?

    Make Sure They Know Who You Root For!

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    What better way than shaving your favorite drivers number in the back of your head? Makes total sense doesn’t it?

    You know you are a redneck if…

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    …you look anything like this guy.

    Free Samples!!!

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    Of Red Man?!?! Seriously? I know this isn’t fashion but I just had to share this. It doesn’t get any better than this right here. Where else could you go to get a free sample of snuff?

    Who Let These Guys In?!

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    At least we’re wearing the right clothes with our favorite numbers on them. Too bad we don’t have the right hair styles. Maybe next year. While we may not fit in with the fashion I have to say it doesn’t seem to really matter. NASCAR fans are some of the nicest people on the face of the earth. It’s like one big family. I’m afraid to say, many churches could learn a thing or two about hospitality from these people… just saying…

  • Barna Describes Casual Christians

    Summary:

    George Barna, in a recent interview sent to me from your friend and mine JR Briggs, says the following when talking about the group he calls “casual Christians”…

    Casual Christianity is faith in moderation. It allows them to feel religious without having to prioritize their faith. Christianity is a low-risk, predictable proposition for this tribe, providing a faith perspective that is not demanding. A Casual Christian can be all the things that they esteem: a nice human being, a family person, religious, an exemplary citizen, a reliable employee – and never have to publicly defend or represent difficult moral or social positions or even lose much sleep over their private choices as long as they mean well and generally do their best. From their perspective, their brand of faith practice is genuine, realistic and practical. To them, Casual Christianity is the best of all worlds; it encourages them to be a better person than if they had been irreligious, yet it is not a faith into which they feel compelled to heavily invest themselves.

    Honestly, I think this description could have been spot on for me in high school and some of college. Not trying to be hard on myself, just stating what i think is reality. The only thing I would disagree with here is that i would say i was taking my faith very seriously and investing in it significantly. However, the faith that I was investing was coming out as someone who was nice, a good family person, a good citizen, a good employee, etc. The problem wasn’t that i wasn’t investing in my faith, the issue was that I was carrying a domesticated understanding of what God had called me to.

    I don’t know, what do you think?

  • Throwback Thursday: Giving is Only As Strong As Your Mission

    Summary:

    One of the things that is annoying about blogs is that once a post has been on your site for a few days, it gets buried under the new stuff and people tend not to find it unless they find it from google search results or  from another form of link.

    This is a shame because most of us have some good stuff in our archives that would be worth reading again.

    So, I’m starting a new series here on my blog.  It’s called: Throwback Thursday.  Basically, each Thursday I’ll be posting a link from my archives that I’d love to share again.

    This week, since I’ve been doing a lot on giving here, I’m reposting a link to my post called “Giving is Only as Strong as Your Mission.”

    Hope you enjoy…

  • The Natural: Cole Hiestand

    Summary:

    At Bat: Cole Hiestand from Todd Hiestand on Vimeo.

    Cole is 5 1/2 and has been hitting like this for about a year and a half. He loves baseball and he asks to play almost everyday. Since we watch the Cubs all the time, his swing is a combination of Derek Lee and Alphonso Soriano. What impresses me most is that I have not really taught him how to swing the bat. He has pretty much learned from watching MLB players.

    The only thing I have taught him are my four keys to hitting (which I made up one day while we were playing) in the yard:

    1. Elbow up
    2. Bend your knees
    3. Watch the ball.
    4. Whack!

    I figure if he gets these down, he’ll be all set.

  • Pastors in their Offices

    Summary:

    “The initial locus and primary focus of [pastors] work is in their offices. Time-management studies again and again have confirmed that pastors invest a large percentage of their time in their offices – in meetings, in doing administrative work, and in taking care of administrative details…Pastors continue to spend so much time their offices because it is a familiar and habitual behavior pattern that has been nurtured and reinforced for many, many years. And the foundation underlying that behavior pattern is an understanding of the nature of leadership that is no longer helpful.”

    - Kennon Callahan, Effective Church Leadership

    Of course. I wrote this post from my office (which is actually a starbucks).

  • Blogging on the Good News

    Summary:

    JR Woodward has been running a great series on the Good News over at his blog the last few months. Some good people have contributed. My effort appeared on his blog late last week. You you check it out here.

  • Are American Christians Selfish?

    Summary: Why are Christians so selfish?

    The book Passing the Plate is addressing the “generosity problem” of American Christians. The authors claim (and I believe them) that their research shows that if American Christians were more generous, we could change the world. They write, “We estimate that if committed Christians in the United States gave 10 percent of their after-tax income – fully but no more than 10 percent – that would provide an extra $46 billion per year of resources with which to fund needs and priorities.”

    Whoa. That’s a lot of money eh?

    They go on to state six facts that they find in their extensive research. Here they are:

    Fact #1 – At least one out of five American Christians – 20 percent of all U.S. Christians – gives literally nothing to church, para-church, or nonreligious charities.

    Fact #2 – The vast majority of American Christians give very little to church, para-church, or nonreligious charities.

    Fact #3 – American Christians do not give their dollars evenly among themselves, but, rather, a small minority of generous givers among them contributes most of the total Christian dollars given.

    Fact #4 – Higher income earning American Christians – like Americans generally – give little to no more money as a percentage of household income than lower income earning Christians.

    Fact #5 – Despite a massive growth of real per capita income over the twentieth century, the average percentage share of income given by AMerican Christians not only did not grow in proportion but actually declined slightly during this time period.

    Fact #6 – The vast majority of the money that American Christians do give to religion is spent in and for their own local communities of faith – little is spent on missions, development, and poverty relief outside of local congregations, particularly outside the United States, in ways that benefit people other than the givers themselves.

    The next part of the book details the authors trying to explain why this is the way it is. Before I read that, I wanted to offer some of my theories as to why American Christians are not as generous as we should be.

    I am basing my responses on a very important assumption that I have. It is my belief that, generally speaking, most people, especially American Christians, want to be generous.

    I really believe this is true. I think, again, generally speaking, most people want to help others in need, care for those less fortunate and be considered generous individuals. I don’t think the main reason we don’t give more is that we’re selfish jerks. Of course, there is some of that in there. It’s definitely one of the reasons. We do tend to be selfish jerks at times. But, I think that when push comes to shove we don’t want to be. I think we long to be generous in all aspecst of our lives. But, there are a lot of things working against us.

    Here’s what I’ve seen:

    Reason #1 – We are shackled with debt.
    I believe this is one of the biggest reasons we aren’t more generous. We just can’t be. Every dollar we make is accounted for and the flex that we have after we take care of teh necessities is taken up in debt payments. I know that in my congregation there are some who wish they could give more but they just can’t figure out how to because they are paying off so much debt. The biggest issue is that most of us don’t know how to get out. That’s a big responsibility of the church in my mind. We need to help people live healthier financial lives. Not for the sake of reasonability. Not just because its a wiser way to live. I think far too often teh call to being debt free is couched in reasons that aren’t based on mission. But, we need to call people to a debt free lifestyle so they can more freely respond to the needs of others.

    Reason #2 – Our churches aren’t worth giving to
    I think this is a significant issue our churches need to face. If fact #6 above is correct, I think we can’t just blame it on selfishness. I have found that when a church is doing something that is perceived as significant, people generously and freely give financially towards it. But I believe that most of what our churches do is not worth giving too. If most of what the church does is inward focused, then I too would not be too excited to give to the local church. If our churches were more mission focused and outward focused in their very nature and we told the stories of what God was doing through them, I believe we’d have a different story here. I’m happy to give to buildings, salaries and programs if those buildings, salaries and programs are changing the world and doing the work of the kingdom. Sadly, I just don’t think this is generally the case.

    Reason #3 – Our churches are terrible at inviting people to give
    Most churches I visit the offering takes one of two forms. The first form is that the offering barely exists and is brushed over as if the church is embarrassed about it. I understand what they are trying to do with this approach. The hope is that people won’t be offended that the church is asking for money. But, what really happens is that the message is sent that the church doesn’t consider money an important part of discipleship and it also sends the message that how you deal with your money is a personal matter that is between you and God and others have no right to meddle in that part of your life. The second form is that the offering is a very guilt ridden, passive-aggressive moment of compulsion. We mostly draw on the fact that we’re supposed to give, should give instead of helping connect the act of giving as an at of grace. This act of grace is a grace in the givers life as well as a grace in the life of those who are helped by the gifts given. I personally think that we should be excited about the moment of offering in the church service. It’s a chance for the church to say, “This is a big deal. How you manage and handle your money is a significant part of your discipleship and we want to encourage you to think very carefully about how you approach it. How you handle your money is a community issue because others are directly affected by your generosity.” We have to stop being embarrassed about inviting people to financially join our church’s mission and start talking about it like the exciting thing that it is.

    Reason #4 – We like our stuff and our comfort too much and we let each other get away with it too easily.
    This is where the selfish jerks thing come in. :) Seriously though I think this is because we have unwittingly bought into the values of our culture. The world tells us that its okay to take care of yourself (and to some extent it is, right?) but we’re too quick to justify each other when we find ourselves putting more effort into our own comfort than the gospel calls us to. I remember sitting on the porch with a number of friends from church and my wife confessed that she was troubled by the fact that she wasn’t able to serve and work with those who were hurting more often. The response from the group was very interesting. We tried to comfort her and give her excuses as to why this was okay. Sure, they were good excuses to pay attention to, but what she really needed was for us to encourage her to engage this thought some more. She didn’t need us to give her permission to keep up with the status quo. Rather, she needed us to help her find a better way forward. While we thought we were doing her a favor, we did her a large disservice.

    Reason #5 – We’re lazy and happy with the status quo.
    I think on some level this is true for more than just our generosity in finances, its true for our how we respond generously with all of our lives. I can’t tell you how many times I have felt called to do something, respond to a need, or make a change in my life but didn’t. Why? Well, honestly sometimes its just easier to sit on the couch and watch my television shows, surf Facebook and keep the status quo the status quo. I think this is true with the way we handle our finances as well as many other parts of our lives.

    Okay, I’ll stop here. Hopefully this stimulates some thoughts.

    The bottom line is this: Christians can change the world and our churches need to be cultivating the generosity of their members. Churches also need to be making such a difference in the world that people can’t help but find a way to partner with them financially.

  • The Furious Longing of God

    Summary: Some quick thoughts on Brennan Manning's newest book.

    The Furious Longing of God

    The Furious Longing of God

    I’m almost embrassed to say that I have never actually read a book by Brennan Manning. From what I gather a lot of his books are the same lyrics but just to a different tune. If that’s true, its just fine with me because he’s writing about something that seeminly takes a lifetime to grasp. And, if I can summarize this book (The Furious Longing of God) in one sentance, its this:

    God loves you like crazy.

    To me, that’s one message that we just can’t hear enough and can’t be reminded of enough. Someone, i forget who, once said that “Sometimes we need to be reminded more than we need to be instructed.” Brennan Manning seems to take this advice and I’m thankful.

    God. Loves. You. Like. Crazy.

    We’d do well to let this messages sit with us every morning for the rest of our lives. Not suprisingly, Manning alludes to the fact that many people who give him a hard time for talking about God’s love too much. I guess I understand where they are coming from (maybe) but man, can we really talk too much of God’s love?

    When it comes down to it, this is a good book for what Manning intended it for. I don’t think he was writing a comprehensive theological treatise on the love of God. I think he’s trying to write something that makes you begin all over again to come to terms with the fact that God love you like crazy.

    If that was really his goal, I think he did well.

    I’m happy to suggest this book to people who are having a hard time wrapping their minds around God’s unbelievable love for them.

  • What Role Does Confession Play in Your Life?

    Summary: Some thoughts on confession and spiritual formation.

    I’ve been working with someone in our church to take a long hard look at the culture and practices of we’ve developed in our church around the issue of spiritual formation, spiritual direction and discipleship. In this, I’ve been doign some reading about how other denominations and traditions have approached this topic throughout the history of the church. One book that has been immensely helpful is Gary Moon and David Benner’s book Spiritual Direction and the Care of Souls. In this book, they give an overview of how spiritual direction is approached from different traditions.

    One thing that has surprised me has been how almost every tradition has a strong emphasis on some form of confession. Now, this probably shouldn’t have surprised me. But, its no secret that evangelicals are not known to place a high emphasis on confession as a regular practice in the Christian life. Perhaps we think we will become catholic or something. But, while it was talked about on some level, it was not and has not been something strongly emphasized. This is true for us at The Well. We don’t, not talk about confession. But I am realizing we aren’t intentional enough about it.

    David Fitch in his book The Great Giveway writes about this a bit in his chapter on spiritual formation. This is a long quote, but i think he hits the nail on the head…

    “But we cannot do therapy like this sitting in the pew. Because evangelicals are so sermon-centric, we are tempted to think that good therapy happens by taking good notes in the pew. But ironically, the more we concentrate on good biblical instruction as central to the Christian life, the less we talk to each other about our lives and especially about sin. MOst of our small group processes are either inductive Bible studies or involved more intense, scholarly study of the bible that never deals with the emotional and character issues that are destroying our lives. It is a testament to how unsafe the church has become for sinners that we rarely discuss with each other our sin and failures and seek the healing of the HOly Spirit. Rarely do we have confession and repentance in our small groups. We need to find safe places where we can share our lives, confess our sins, receive scriptural wisdom, and be prayed for. To do this, we cannot just get together and simply share our sins and quote bible verses at each other. We must retrieve from therapy the needed skills to practice biblical confession and bring it under the lordship of Christ. This is the utmost of importance to the future of spiritual formation in the evangelical church.” (195)

  • Life with Three Kids

    Summary:

    We have three kids in our house.

    Three different personalities.

    Three different temperaments.

    One of them just sits there and sleeps most of the day.

    The other two go back and forth between being best friends and wanting to kill each other.

    The friends thing is amazingly cute and fun to watch.

    The wanting to kill each other thing makes Melanie and I want to jump out of a window.

    Who knows what will happen as the third gets moving, talking and into the mix.

    It’ll likely a combination of beautiful friendship and complete insanity.

    No matter what, this family is beautiful.

    And just when we thought things couldn’t get better…

    …We just got a dishwasher.

    Talk about living the dream.

    Now, if we could just find a way to get more sleep…

  • Welcome Elliot James Hiestand

    Summary:

    For those of you who don’t follow me on Twitter or Facebook you might not have heard that we now have three kids. Elliot James Hiestand was born on Saturday at 12:59pm. As you can tell from the images he’s quite a good looking kid.

    Here he is with his two brothers:

    My Three Sons

    My Three Sons

  • The Next Steps for The Well

    Summary: This is a letter the leadership team and I wrote late last week to our church community. We're in the midst of taking some steps forward and this letter was meant to recap what we talked about two sunday's ago during our gathering. You can listen to audio of that gathering on our church's website at: http://church.thewellpa.com

    May 12, 2009

    Dear Church Family,

    During our worship gathering on Sunday we took a break from our regular sermon series in order to look back at the early dreams and passions of The Well and to celebrate how God is making these dreams a reality. (You can listen to the audio on the church website here: http://church.thewellpa.com/podcast/the-history-next-steps-for-the-well/)

    The Well has four foundational values:

    • Discipleship (we are a community of people becoming more and more like Jesus)
    • Justice/Evangelism (we reach out and share the love of Jesus with others, especially those on the fringes of society)
    • Locality (we are locally embedded in our neighborhood, especially through the use of our building)
    • Unity (we are connected to the historical and global Church)

    On Sunday we focused on three of these four values, and how God continues to bless our desire to serve in these areas. Below is a quick overview:

    Discipleship: God has been actively working in the lives of the people in our congregation. It’s clear that his Spirit is present and active among us. We believe that it is now time for us to become even more intentional about allowing God to form all of our lives into the image of Christ. We seek to enrich our environment in a way that will help people discover practices and relationships that foster Christ-likeness. This summer we will begin a very intentional time of searching and seeking in order to more fully understand the next steps before us. If being part of this process interests you, please e-mail Shanna (splatt20@hotmail.com).

    Justice/Outreach: Over the last few years God has given us wonderful opportunities to serve our local community in things such as the missions trip to Lower Bucks County, meeting specific local needs, and partnering with local community services organizations. As we continue serving in those ways we are making intentional steps to reach outside ourselves. God has planted a desire among many in The Well to serve our neighboring community of Bristol. From June 7 to August 23, we will meet in Bristol for informal Sunday night worship gatherings. We will meet at Brian and Dorie Morgan’s house (922 Spring St, Bristol, PA) at 6 pm for a potluck dinner, followed by music and discussion from 7 to 8. Once a month, we will also do a service project in the community of Bristol. We pray this will be an awesome opportunity to worship God in an intimate setting, grow close with friends and neighbors, and serve in the most depressed part of Bucks County. For now, this is a summertime program, but we will pray as to how God is leading us in the future. For anyone interested in serving the people of Bristol, there will be a meeting after church on May 24. If you have any questions, please contact Gary Alloway (garya@thewellpa.com).

    Locality: Our prayer is that our building would serve as an important means of blessing and partnering with our local community. We have certainly seen God honor our prayers, as he has allowed us to use our building to minister in exciting ways. We now see the need to hire a Building Ministry Coordinator to continue our faithful use of this resource by finding new opportunities for our community to serve others through use of our space. Our goal is to have the Coordinator in place by August in order to prepare for fall programming. We will also be undergoing some renovations to our bathrooms and coffee bar as well as adding another classroom. We are currently in the midst of estimating costs and exploring grants to fund this position and the renovations. If you are interested in helping with the planning process, writing grants, or doing renovations please contact Todd Hiestand (toddh@thewellpa.com).

    Our journey the last twelve years has been much like a hike. Our dream was to walk this journey in step with the Spirit. There have been some peaks, some valleys, and some great stories of God working in, among, and through us. For the last year or so we have sensed that God has brought us (organizationally speaking) to a peaceful clearing on the trail. This clearing has been a place of much needed stability and rest. We’ve been able to catch our breath, roast a few marshmallows on the fire, and throw the frisbee around a bit. As nice as it is, we do not desire to stay in the clearing for too long. It’s time to continue on our journey. So we walk forward in faith, believing that God will continue the good work he started in us twelve years ago.

    As always, we invite conversation and discussion about these decisions. We also ask you to join in prayer with us as we ask God to lead and direct these goals. As each of these areas proceeds there will be opportunities to participate with your time, ideas and finances. If you have questions, concerns, ideas or just want to hear more, please do not hesitate to ask.

    The Ministry Leadership Team at The Well,

    Gary Alloway, Shanna Cummings, Todd Hiestand, Patti Pearson, Anna Pelger, Phil Wood

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