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Giving is Only as Strong as Your Mission…

May 9, 2008 / Comments: 0

From an article on The Ooze:

Our house church has been thriving now for over 2 years and I can honestly say I’ve not once had to preach a sermon on tithing or giving, and yet our small gathering gave thousands of dollars to the help the poor in our community last year. In fact, we’re on track to double last year’s amount, and I’ve never had to beg or plead for our members to dig deep or give more. Why is this? What’s the big difference?

The simple fact is that our people can tangibly connect every dollar and penny they give with how it directly assists people in need. We keep nothing for ourselves and give all of the money we receive away to the poor. When our members connect their dollars with actual people receiving assistance they are glad to give all that they can to help others.

This is an interesting thought here. I have talked with pastor after pastor and when the conversation turns to issues of financing our mission, its usually a conversation around how “things are tight” and “we’re struggling.”  Now, what I am not about to say is that we never struggle financially at The Well, but I am about to say that we have a similarly generous community as this person is describing above. I am continually amazed at the generosity of our church.  It’s really inspiring.

Now this person is writing from a house church perspective and perhaps the most interesting thing that he says is that, “The simple fact is that our people can tangibly connect every dollar and penny they give with how it directly assists people in need.”

Shouldn’t this be true of every church!?  I mean seriously? Shouldn’t it?

Ken Callahan, author, a mentor of mine and one of the key consultants for the Salvation Army (who, by the way, receive the most charitable giving of any other non-profit organization by a large margin) recently told me that charitable giving is actually up in America.  Charitable giving in the church?  Down.  There is a problem here isn’t there?  If part of growing a generous community is connecting every dollar we spend to people actually in need, the church should be the best at this.  I really believe that.  I mean, if i didn’t, I wouldn’t be a pastor.

I think the problem here is one of two options:

  1. Our leaders are not clearly teaching our communities how the gifts that they give are changing lives and changing the world.
  2. The gifts that our communities are giving are not actually changing the world and our mission is not actually that compelling.

I’ll be wiling to argue that it’s probably a combination of both. I think that most of our churches are really doing some amazing things and far too often when we talk about financial giving in our churches we do a terrible job of connecting how the organization spends its money with the impact these gifts are having.  I also am more than willing to admit that our churches are downright wasting money on things that don’t really matter.

Both of these issues are a big problem.

At The Well, when I stand up to introduce offering every week I do my best to connect the gifts that we are about share with each other to how they are being used for the sake of the Kingdom.  Its a good check for me as a leader. If I can’t point to how the gifts are being used, I better not be asking our people to participate in giving. I really believe that.

Questions I have to ask myself:

  • Is the part-time salaries we are paying our staff resulting in kingdom work?
  • Is the building we are paying for each month being used for kingdom work?
  • Is the way we are spending our money really being used for kingdom work?

I, for one, believe that Kingdom work is being done at The Well and with good conciouse I can invite people to share in this mission together with their finances.  The moment I stop believing that we are doing good will be the moment I can’t stand in front of my community with integrity and invite them to give.

So, we go back to what Ken Callahan said about charitable giving being up in the States and down in the Church.  Why? Perhaps its because a) these organziations are doing better at teaching their constituints how their gifts are making a difference and b) these organizations are actually making a difference…

Is your community making a difference?

Is it clear how your community is making a difference?

I believe that our churhes are making a difference.  I also believe that each and everyone (including The Well!) can do better at making a difference.  I also really believe that as leaders, we need to do a better job of teaching our communties how their gifts are really making a difference for the sake of the Kingdom.

All that to say, Giving is only as strong as your mission.

African Friends and Money Matters: 1-5

May 8, 2008 / Comments: 0

As I stated recently, I am reading the book African Friends and Money Matters in preparation for my trip to Zambia. This book is broken up into 90 general observations about the differences between African and Western cultures. The author appropriately states that these are general observations and, like in any culture, there are exceptions to them. I am basically going to try and read about 5 of these observations every day or so until I leave. We’ll see how my plan goes.

I’ve found these observations really, really fascinating.

Here are the first five:

  • The financial need that occurs first as the first claim on the available resources.
  • Resources are to be used, not hoarded.
  • Money is to be spent before friends or relatives ask to “borrow” it.
  • If something is not being actively used, it is considered to be “available.”
  • Africans are very sensitive and alert to the needs of others and are quite ready to share their resources.

All of these are very different from Western society where everything is individualized instead of communal and we hold independence more important than interdepedence.

I think its important to understand that the author is not saying these are necessarily right or wrong, but that they just “are.”  There are positives and negatives to each of them.

Here is an example, “Africans perfer to take risks in allowing themselves to be decieved, rather than risk failing to help someone who is in need.”

I’ll be honest, as read this so far, I am really drawn to the African way of life that I read about here.  I love the focus on community and sharing.  Of course, I am also not so drawn to it because I like my “stuff.”

My trip to Zambia is from June 15-27. Read more here.

As of today I need to raise another $3000 for this trip. If you would like to help with that you can use paypal:


How do you Give up 7 homers to the Reds?

May 7, 2008 / Comments: 3

Cubs give up 7 homersI interrupt this string of serious blog posts for something even more serious. My beloved Cubs have given up seven homers to the lowly Reds today.  Just when we think things are on the up, this kind of thing happens.

I pulled this image from the ESPN box score.

We’re only in the 7th inning and this could go from terrible to horriffic… or, wait, I think we’re already at horriffic. Ugh.

It’s so hard being a Cubs fan…

But, don’t worry about me, I’m still convinced we’ll win it all this year… Just like every year.

Four Missional Movements for the Suburban Church

May 7, 2008 / Comments: 1

At The Well, we’ve been studying the book of Acts. Its been a very, very formative and challenging book for us to work through. For me, there have been four ways that my life, and I think our life, has been challenged so far.

Here are four movements that I’ve seen:

From Individual to Communal
As individuals we are important, very, very important. But we need to continually celebrate the individual but we must do …

Westerners in Africa, The Challenge

May 6, 2008 / Comments: 0

Since I am heading to Zambia in June this year I’ve been trying to do some reading and education about the challenge of westerners living and working in Africa. This challenge was made clear to my by my dad who spend about 10 years serving in sub-Saharan Africa as a representative of larger worldwide missions agency. We didn’t live there or anything but he did travel there a lot when I was a …

Personal Financial Accountability In the Church, A Way Forward

May 6, 2008 / Comments: 6

For the first three years of our marriage my wife and I didn’t have any outstanding credit card debt. Then the crap hit the fan. Between some unnecessary purchases, not making enough money, hospital bills, and a string of car repairs, we amassed ourselves some significant credit card debt.

Over the last two years we’ve been trying to be more conscious of how we spend and how we save. We’re finally starting …

The Consuming Christian and the Consuming Church

May 5, 2008 / Comments: 5

I was thinking Sunday morning as I was getting ready for church. I do that sometimes… think, that is. Anyways, we’ve had a number of new people visiting our community recently. There is a general theme going on with their story. Many of these folk have come from either not being in church for a long period of time or suffering (their words) through being part of a church that …

Sunday Blog Roundup: April 26 - May 3

May 4, 2008 / Comments: 0

Well, I blogged as much last week as I ever have.  I’ve started to use my blogs to share my experiences and thoughts on leadership (in addition to my normal musings on the church, life, my kids, webdesign, etc).  But, there are a number of new readers in the last week and if you are new here i wanted to highlight a few posts from last week that you may have missed:

Open Handed MInistry

Sunday Quote - 5/4/08

May 4, 2008 / Comments: 0

“Disciple says we are people who spend our lives apprenticed to our master, Jesus Christ. We are in a growing-learning relationship, always. A disciple is a learner, but not in the academic setting of a schoolroom, rather at the work site of a craftsman. We do not acquire information about God but skills in faith.”

Eugene Peterson, A Long Obedience in the Same Direction

Recommended Reading for Leadership, Church, Missional Theology, etc.

May 3, 2008 / Comments: 0

I love reading. I wish I did it more.  I wish I would put my computer down more.  I usually go through phases where I read a lot. I’ve been in one of those phases recently so it inspired me to share some books.

Last December I did a series on my top books of 2007 and since then I have received a …

Leading and Speaking with Confidence

May 2, 2008 / Comments: 2

I was driving my car today through town and saw this sign on a gas station / car wash. This is one of those higher end car washes that does the whole car, inside and out.

The marquee says, “We really know how to clean your car right.”

Now, on some level this is a little simplistic and cheesy. But honestly, …

The Role of the “Pastor”

May 1, 2008 / Comments: 3

A couple days ago I was writing how being bi-occupational allowed me to naturally pastor in a way that calls the community to live their gifting and calling for the sake for the kingdom…

In case I wasn’t clear, let me quote from one of my heros, Lesslie Newbigin. He’s talking about the role of the pastor and says this,

“The task of ministry is to lead the congregation as a whole in a mission …

Why and How I Use Twitter

May 1, 2008 / Comments: 6

I’ve been using Twitter for quite a while now.  I, like most people, signed up and then didn’t use it for a few months but a while back I started using it more and more.  For those of you who don’t know what Twitter is, its essentially a micro blog.  Essentially write short 140 character updates which people can then view.  The best part about Twitter is its social networking feature. You can have …

Don’t Call Me Mr. Mom

May 1, 2008 / Comments: 9

I just got done pulling Strawberry Chex out of my son’s hair.  It was awesome.

For the last two months Melanie (my wife) has been working on Thursdays so that means I have been home with the boys.  It’s funny, a number of people have made the predictable “Mr. Mom” comment. I’ll be honest, I hate that comment.  I really do.  Last time I checked, I’m their dad. …

Speaking of Shiny New Things

April 30, 2008 / Comments: 8

On a whim tonight, I made some major modifications to my blog design. I did a bunch of things….

The Site width is now 960px instead of 1000px.  I hope this gives the design a little more breathing room.
I reduced the font size a bit.
Simplified the header
Tried to make the section titles a bit more bold (as i want to highlight the little sayings in …

The Lure of Shiny New Things

April 30, 2008 / Comments: 0

I’ve become a big fan of Patrick Lencioni and his leadership books. I think he sees things that most of just don’t see. The things he sees are those “duh” type of things too. I subscribe to his “Point of View” newsletter. (you can do so here).

Today he sent out a thought on the lure of “new” …

Church Leadership Meetings: Is it Possible Not to Hate Them?

April 30, 2008 / Comments: 1

Meetings. We typically don’t like them. In fact, most of us hate them. This is true for many reasons. I’ve blogged about this before.

At The Well we’ve been on a journey to figure out how to best form our meet time so that our time is well spent. I’ll be honest, I’ve gone back and forth between loathing out meetings and loving our meetings. Since we’re working in an …

Am I a webdesigner or pastor? Keeping on task…

April 29, 2008 / Comments: 3

I wrote yesterday a bit about how I work bi-occupationally (I have two occupations and one vocation - my vocation is “christian” or “Christ follower” if you like that term better).

One of the challenges of working this way is knowing where to draw lines and boundaries. Both these jobs can be demanding of your time at all hours of the day and I have learned that it take major discipline to manage …

The Best 1:43 you will spend today (A Mason Video)

April 28, 2008 / Comments: 4

Seriously, if you had to do spend 1 minute and 43 seconds doing something, you’d have a hard time finding a better way to do it…

On Being a Part-Time Pastor…

April 28, 2008 / Comments: 3

I am a part-time pastor. Well, I am paid part time to be a pastor.

Many people have asked me over e-mail or in person, how this part time in two worlds thing works. In case you are new here and have no clue what I am talking about, I am part-time as lead pastor at The Well and I also run my own freelance web design business. …

10 Reasons Men Should Not Be In Ministry

April 26, 2008 / Comments: 8

Through a series of links I found this funny top ten list… this is hilarious stuff.

This is from the post:

10. A man’s place is in the army.

9. The pastoral duties of men who have children might distract them from the responsibility of being a parent.

8. The physique of men indicates that they are more suited to such tasks as chopping down trees and wrestling mountain lions. It would be “unnatural” for …

Open Handed Ministry

April 26, 2008 / Comments: 3

(I posted this post over at my other blog that I don’t think will actually take off again because I am realizing I can’t put energy into two blogs, so I am reposting it here).

If you are a pastor, here’s a question: How do you refer the people in your church? Most pastors I know use interesting language when talking about the congregation they pastor in. They usually are called …

Hoping for another Devin Hester

April 25, 2008 / Comments: 0

I am posting this video in hopes that the Bears can strike gold again in the draft tomorrow…

I Sold this Blog to Google for $1,000,000

April 25, 2008 / Comments: 0

Okay, another overstatement of a title. But, I am now sporting some ads on my blog. What’s this world coming to? Next thing you know my kids will be paid to wear companies names on their clothing…oh, wait, I think we pay them for the privilege to do that…

Anyways, I personally think these ads are fairly un-intrusive. I am actually going to take all the money I receive off these ads and …

Are You A Leader? Or Are You Just Holding A Position?

April 24, 2008 / Comments: 0

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately about leadership. This question has haunted me recently. Am I acting as a leader or am I just holding a position? Now, I realize I tend to be way too hard on myself but I think that’s sometimes really helpful to be so.

But, the thing I am learning is that its way too easy to hold a position of leadership and not …

Rethinking my Allegiance to Apple…

April 23, 2008 / Comments: 8

Uh, yeah, right. No chance I am rethinking my allegiance to Apple despite the long, long list of recent problems my MacBookPro has had (read about them here). Not only did I have all those problems recently, but some of them were repeated. Just this week I was without my computer again for two days. Seems the logic board failed again and needed to …

I’m Not A Good Suburbanite

April 19, 2008 / Comments: 0

I have a confession to make: I was a bad suburbanite yesterday. Why? Well, there are a number of reasons…

I carpooled down to the city in the morning with someone who was already going down there instead of driving my own car.
I walked all over the city. Yes, on foot.
Since I carpooled down to the city, I had to take the train back to the burbs.
When I got to my train …

Poverty

April 18, 2008 / Comments: 0

“Poor people die not only because of the world’s indifference to their poverty, but also because of ineffective efforts by those who do care…”

William Easterly, in the book The White Man’s Burden

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